Sunday, August 9, 2009

Yoo Are Still Single!! :o

These days single-committed phenomenon is such a taboo, I tell you..If you are single, people will scoff at you, look down on you as a puisne...You are made to look as an object of futility..ekdum Bekaar..they try to find different kinds of biological and physical defects in you in order to fit in a reason why you haven't been able to find anyone for yourself yet...

You ping a long lost friend on gtalk and the first question that's thrown at you is,"Hey,,so you still single?? :o"...or..."Koi mila nahi tujhe abhi tak tere type ka?(Haven't still found the right guy for yourself?)"...or..."How come you are still single...though I don't really believe it!!"..
TOSH!!!As if being single will lead to perdition...you can feel the revulsion associated with your 'SINGLE' relationship status..

Furthermore, you can't escape the uninvited demonstration of their status...needn't ask for details..they would come to you as they are with a little masala added..."Guess what, I broke up with xyz...it just didn't work out between us....but don't worry I'm already in a new relationship and abc is such a sweetheart, gal!!!You ought to be in love atleast once.."


And thus, it leaves you wondering what actually is LOVE? The weight of the four-lettered word is in-fact very huge, quite contrary to its size but the way it's portrayed today makes it look so simple..so naive....!!Now there are two theories of love I'm entangled between...One is "The Theory Of Great Love" endorsed by Romeo and Juliet, Heer and Ranjha...and the other is "The Try Try Till You Succeed Theory", the one endorsed by modern day lovers..which says keep trying with different guys or gals(depending on your sex and sexual orientation) until you find your REAL soulmate-your Prince Consort/The Ultimate Princess...<3!!

But I wonder where has the sanctity of this relation gone??(Gone with the winds of time, probably!) How many people get into a relation because they really think they love each other...I've seen people who get into it just because society demands them to...(peer pressure as we call it..),,to have somebody to flaunt in social circles, just because they don't want to be tagged as 'LS' in high society..

The scarosanct love I read of in books and watched in old hits has almost disappeared...They said ,"Love is Ubiquitous"...Now they say,"Lovers are Ubiquitous"..you just have to pick and choose randomly and someday, somehow you'll end up being with your PERFECT lover...
Dhatt!!Is this what you call as love??I'm already hagridden....


But my faith in the lumineu of love is unmoved...I still picturise love as two hearts merged into one...sharing happinesses,pains...doing small adorable things just to bring a smile on each other's face...not just being together hand-in-hand all the time but being there for each other...standing for each other even if it means standing against the whole world...
So what if I sound old-fashioned, but this is My Theory Of Love<3!!
As of now,,I'm Single And I Love It!!:)

16 comments:

Skywalker said...

I dont know what to say on reading this post of yours....certainly there is pressure from your friends who on getting committed want you to be committed as soon as possible :P...and some times may lead to you getting into something you dnt want to..that is the worst case scenario..

the best thing in this post "love as two hearts merged into one...sharing happinesses,pains...doing small adorable things just to bring a smile on each other's face"and true love is never old fashioned...its always in fashion..just that it is not getting proper marketing strategy :D ;)

PS: whats is this song thats getting played in your blog...can you mail it to me?

Rahil said...

Ahh..finally a post by jaunty explaining love, and job well done :)

and btw U still single???tujhe koi mila nahi :P
just kiddin, ur prince will be soon walkin in !!

"standing for each other even if it means standing against the whole world..."

Happybirdie said...

ohh sweatheart!!! You wrote my heart out.Even I never got this theory of multiple love affairs...;)
Dnt worry, the world may be changing but only for worst...u just stick to your philosophy and give a deaf ear to all thz who say otherwise.....
Commit, only when you are 200 % sure that you will be able to carry it forward ELSE ENJOY BEING SINGLE :) :)

Anoop said...

hey... i like this.. :)
Love is Ubiquitous"...Now they say,"Lovers are Ubiquitous" - well said.. :D

i would copy paste it for sure... not on my blog though... khe khe khee... but i liked it...

Cheers
Anoop :D

niharika said...

completely agree with u..!! well written madam jaunty..! (if that's what u call it.!) :)

Rashmi..... said...

hahaha frend...y dnt u vsit my blog too....the one tat says: from this to that , that to there and to him .
we feel n suffer so very much same !
N thanx for the comment.
keep visiting.

Sourav !!! said...

Hell yeah ... being single is life's way of being nicer to u ! ... those with the so called 'soulmates' are either suffering from late night phone-aches, internet-bugs, meet-me and many such incurable diseases !! ;)

Screw what your peers has to say on Orkut, facebook or twitter status messages .. live your life and yes I liked your blog ... and now following it too, with the hope that u'd come and visit me too :)
(girl, this is a crude world, barter system is still on...lol) ... non-sense ... ! :P

Jaunty anima said...

@skywalker:Sir cn u explain hw to gt this proper marketing strategy..??wud benefit many...:D

@Rahil:Thanks...n yeah m still single...u had ny doubts??

@Happybirdie:Thanks mam...i'll pay heed to ur advice for sure....

@Anoop:Thanks boy!!Keep reading...Enjoy!

Jaunty anima said...

@Niharika:Thanks gal...Enjoy reading!!N keep visiting!!

@Rashmi:well i did go thru it...n the condition is almost d same..while m being asked 2 gt into a relation...u into a nuptial bond...Gosh...urs is a bigger prob though:P

@Sourav:Hey thanks for making me aware abt these diseases...u sound pretty experienced,huh!!Nways thanks for visiting...Keep coming back...

Sukriti said...

a very good post girl...each and every word is perfect..and i completely agree with it..being single and waiting for your true love is all together a different experience...
keep writing on such serious issues:D

Jaunty anima said...

@Sukriti:Thanks gal...u noe I always count on ur appreciation...n well writing on serious issues...yeah i'll try my best!!

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hey..u hav presented ur feelings very clearly..And i liked the last few lines very much..:)

It happens; Even some of frnds experienced the same. But dont worry, as u mentioned in the last paragraph, i would say, love is something that make u to adore even small things of ur man; and it is a truth; believe it..

And take ur time to choose ur man, don't go by ppl words, they can say any thing, but if u wanna live a happy life, u need to have a partnr, who can understand ur thoughts..u will definetly get him, and dont mind about the rest..:) Just enjoy the life...

Every moment we live is special...live it to its fullest..:)

Hey, thanks for dropping by and would love to see u again and again with ur reviews on my posts..Take care.

Rane (The Orchid with All Shades Pink) said...

the last paragraph stole my heart.. !
following you now.. will be back for more.. :)

Jaunty anima said...

@Pramoda:hey thanks!!!=)

@Rane:Ohh Thanks!!Keep cmn back...:)

vAnDaNa sLaThIa said...

well said

guess what i hv a similar post in my blog
"what does being in love mean???????"
& its a all time hit on my blog

ppl frm far & near read it

though it doesnt hv much comments

LOVE has become a kinda joke these days

Karthik said...

It's a cliche, isn't it? Well, agree with you completely.
Boy treats his girl like a champion's trophy and girl wears her boy as a badge.
No matter how much we rant about it, nothing is going to change. But we just have to keep our sanity by not falling prey to the juvenile philosophies of the so-called 'oh-so' boys and girls.
Nicely written, Anima. It really feels good to know that girls like you still exist in this world. :-)

P.S. You have a nice blog. Will read all your posts one by one. Your style of writing is splendid. Keep writing! :-)